I get a bit nutty, especially when I hear celebrities say “I never said I wanted to be a role model.”  Part of me thinks people who say they aren’t or don’t want to be role models, are really making excuses not to be responsible or held in judgement. If you can be seen and heard, you’re a role model. Indeed sports figures and entertainers are judged unfairly — but they don’t get a pass. Their words and actions matter. No cake and eating it too people!

What we say and do makes an impact not only on our personal lives, but can make an intense difference — good or bad — on someone’s life. Loved ones, friends, co-workers, fans and most importantly to me — young people. Clearly, I’m not perfect, but throughout my career and personal life, I’ve always made it a priority to represent myself positively around young people and encourage them to reach their full potential.

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For over seven years, I mentored a young man who lives in the Bronx, NY.  We were matched by a wonderful organization, Children’s Hope Foundation, when he was 9 years old. My ‘little brother’s’ name is Tavares. What an amazing experience.Twice a month Tavares and I would get together and hang out. Our adventures included visiting museums, going to  movies, sampling ethnic restaurants, Broadway shows and enjoyable walks and talks throughout New York City.  This has been one of the most fun and profound relationships I’ve ever had.

Sure, being a mentor to a young person is a big responsibility. But the opportunity to support and share new experiences was exciting.

Tavares is now 20 years old and in college. It’s been a blast watching him grow up to be a young man making positive choices.

Get this kid some shades his future is really bright!

At the Apollo Theatre speaking at a Big Brothers, Big Sisters NYC event

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